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{pictures courtesy of Flickr} "Love is handing your heart to someone and taking the risk that they will hand it back because they don't want it. That's why it's such a crushing ache on the inside. We gave away a part of ourselves and it wasn't wanted. Love is a giving away of power. When we love, we give the other person the power in the relationship. They can do what they choose. They can do what they like with our love. They can reject it, they can accept it, they can step toward us in gratitude and appreciation. Love is a giving away. When we love, we put ourselves out there, we expose ourselves, we allow ourselves to be vulnerable. Love is giving up control. It's surrendering the desire to control the other person.The two -love and controlling power over the other person-are mutually exclusive. If we are serious about loving someone, we have to surrender all of the desires within us to manipulate the relationship. " -Rob Bell Loving is a...

aiyo .. kesiannya .. why is your class until April. T.T nevermind , you promised right. hope it comes true. ^.^ if it doesn't I don't MIND. ~ have I mentioned I   LURVE KICKAPOO? LAWL . oh yeah,  I AM currently looking for a new blogskin . there are SOOO MANY to look at.. i hope I'll find the one I want. preferably white. =) haiz..still waiting for the day I know how to create one. ~ RULES!!!!!! 1. Put your Music Player on shuffle. 2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer. 3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW OUTRAGEOUS IT SOUNDS! IF SOMEONE SAYS "IS THIS OKAY" YOU SAY? Going Crazy - Ashley Tisdale WHAT WOULD BEST DESCRIBE YOUR PERSONALITY? I Wanna Be Around - Tony Benett WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL? Don't Be Afraid - Wang Leehom WHAT IS YOUR LIFE'S PURPOSE? Wake Up America - Miley Cyrus WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO? Are You Havin' Any Fun - Tony Benett WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU? How Deep Is Your Love - Take Th...